3 THINGS I LEARNED ABOUT STARTING OVER.
Updated: Nov 7, 2019
Remember that time I went to saint Marteen last summer?
Yea I barely do either .. .
This blog post has been in the works for a WHILE! Apologies on the delay guys… but life, you know?
Been awhile since I’ve written.. I thought I’d touch base with you guys
In the months I’ve moved to this new city… I’ve worked for a startup, started a blog, dated , fell out of love, got broken heart, quit my vip host job, and run away.. (well not really) but it feels like I’ve been all over the place, but now… in this moment.. I am excited about pressing the restart button for one more time and sharing my journey.
How to Start Over...
1. Let go of failures
They are anchors preventing you from moving forward. If it doesn’t serve your goal, get rid of it. I spent a lot of time feeling guilty for not seeing my first blog idea through and instead of releasing it from my heart, I wasted a lot of time wishing I sought it through.
2. Where you spend your time is where your passion will be.
It’s ok to not know what you want to do with your life, but if each day is like a penny… where we give our time is where we find our passion. I started spending time reaching out to people I looked up to. Connecting with them over coffee and finding inspiration in their passion. When you find a mentor, it makes your dreams feel possible.
3. Say “No” sometimes it’s good for you.
I honestly don‘t like it when I say no to someone that ask me .. but if I had learned something is That you can’t waist your time with people who doesn’t deserve it. when I first moved to the United States all over the places .. I think meeting up with friends and being social should have been added to my resume. I would spend hours in traffic to make that 20 minute Starbucks date, or just running around Playing off of #2… investing time in others is more for them then it is for you.
So next time I see you please remind me :)